Saturday, May 06, 2006

Harvynna and Rowena

We introduced Harvynna to Rowena on 26th April (Day 2) as I was too exhausted from the delivery on the first day.

Aunty Philo (the babysitter) had already told Harvynna that she had a baby sister and was preparing her. Harvynna came in to the hospital room and saw me holding the baby. She was ok with that and came to touch the baby, saying, ‘Baby Girl, Baby Baby!’. She did not like Daddy or Nani (my mother) carrying the baby. She would scream and roll on the floor screaming for daddy to carry her.

When it was time to feed the baby, she climbed on the bed demanding for ‘Mummy’s susu’. Sigh! ‘Just a little bit more!’

The worse was when there were many visitors that came to see the baby especially once I got home and that got her really worked up. She would scream when anyone tried to carry Rowena. She would shout ‘Put baby back in basket’. ‘Don’t touch my baby’. She sat next to Rowena the whole time. She was being a possessive sister.


Now, after a week, she has gotten used to her baby sister and keeps coming to kiss her and touch her. Although sometimes, she can be a little rough as she treats Rowena like one of her dolls. Harvynna has been helpful with looking after the baby e.g. throwing Rowena’s diaper, soaking the cotton in water to clean her etc. She is fitting into the big sister role quite well!

Oops-got to go, Rowena just did a super explosive poo!

Wednesday, May 03, 2006

Baby Rowena is born!



Our precious little princess, Rowena Kaur Kler was born on April 25th at 4.45pm at 40 weeks and 2 days.

Weight: 3.65kg
Length: 50.5 cm

Rowena was healthy and has lots and lots of hair. Harvynna adores

her little sister but is of course a little jealous.

Monday, May 01, 2006

Rowena's birth

Long overdue but nevertheless!

Our precious little princess Rowena Kler was born on 25 April 2006 at 4.45pm, after a long, long wait (40 weeks and 2 days).

Was getting very anxious as my due date was getting nearer and nearer and there were absolutely no signs. Was on mc from the week of 17 April in anticipation.Went for the doctors check up on 22 April and he mentioned that there was no indication and set April 28 as the cut of date - no sign of baby coming out, then we have to do a c-section.

As I had been planning to have a natural delivery this time, we decided to wait it out. Then on the EDD, 23 April, I had a show in the evening and went to the hospital. Upon doing the monitoring, i had mild contraction every 4 minutes and they decided to admit me. It was very mild so it was bearable. The next day, the cervix was only opened 1 cm and they decided to discharge me. We scheduled an ARM for tuesday morning

That night was miserable, as the contractions were every 4-8 minutes and quite painful. Could not sleep the whole night. Anyway, the next morning, we left for the hospital as planned. We dropped Harvynna off at the babysitter.

This time the contractions (although still categorised as mild) was getting more painful esp when I stand. Felt like the old wound was going to rupture.

At the hospital, the CTG showed the same mild contractions every 4 minutes. The dr checked and saw that the cervix had dilated 3 cm and went ahead to burst the water bag. Was transferred to the labour room at 11.00am.

Dr Guna came in at 1.00pm to check. Cervix dilated only another 1 cm. He toldme he will come in at about 3.00pm to check and to decide what to do. So at 3.00pm, cervix was only at 5 cm. We had to make a decision. He was willing to wait but we were also aware that should we do a C section after 5.00pm, the charges will be doubled!! It was something we had to decide our selves and also that the longer I wait, more stress was put on the old wound. In the end, we decided to go for the C section. That was about 4.00pm. The Operation theatre team came downand took over. It was like a scene from the ER. Everyone was rushing and wheeled me to the Operation Theatre like it was an emergency.

Decided to take a spinal anesthesia. At 4.30pm, Dr guna came in and started the surgery. At 4.45pm, little Rowena was born. She was not as loud as Harvynna! The surgery was a little complicated as after my first C section, some if the internal organs got stuck together and the dr had to seperate them. Hubs saw the dr seperating the organs, tying them up and pushing them aside. Even the stitching back took a lot of time, and it was painful. Immediately, after the surgery was over,I could feel the pain and was shivering.

The 2nd C section was extremely painful as they cut at the same place. It took 1 week for the pain to go away. Harvynna likes to look at my wound and say, 'Dr cut Mummy's stomach for Rowena to get out!'

Thursday, April 13, 2006

Happy Birthday Diddy!!




Posted by PicasaDaddy celebrated his birthday on Sunday (9 April). We celebrated at Souled Out CafĂ©. As mentioned in my earlier post, we like the place as it is kid-friendly. We went to Bangsar Village earlier to purchase Daddy’s cake.

I asked Harvynna:

Mummy: After this we go buy cake for Daddy’s Happy Birthday ok.
Harvynna: No diddy Happy Birthday. Harvynna Happy Birthday.
Mummy: No, today is Daddy’s birthday, Wednesday is Harvynna’s birthday. We buy daddy a cake ok.
Harvynna: Buy daddy cake
Mummy: Harvynna got money?
Harvynna: Harvynna no have money.
Mummy: Then how to pay for the cake?
Harvynna: Diddy pay!

We got a little heart shaped cake, that said Happy Birthday daddy.

Harvynna’s favourite Uncle Brendan (Uncle Bendan) and Aunty Ameta (Aunty Aita) joined us. Harvynna seemes to like uncle Brendan. Whenever, she sees Simon Cowell of American Idol on tv, she will get so excited and say, ‘there uncle bendan’. They do have a resemblance (I think).

When you ask her, ‘Where Uncle Brendan?
She will reply, ‘In the tv’
I ask her, ‘what does Uncle Brendan do”
She will say, ‘Uncle Brendan white man!!’

Souled out was fun but can get pretty noisy. Harvynna was not happy and felt left out as we were all busy talking and started her tantrums. So we had to let her our from her chair and run around till she came back to our table to do her poo poo!

It was only, when we were on our way home in the car that she acknowledged it was Diddys birthday and sang Happy Birthday to him.


Happy birthday Diddy!!
Hugs and kisses from Harvynna and mummy!

Happy 2nd birthday Princess!





Posted by Picasa Happy 2nd birthday our little princess!

Yesterday, Harvynna turned 2! On Tuesday (being a public holiday), we went to Mid Valley to get Daddy’s belated birthday present and also Harvynna’s present from Toysrus. I thought that that might cause labour to start since the dr said that walking might help. Wouldn’t it be nice for Harvynna to share her bday with her baby, or maybe not. Unfortunately, nothing happened.

Anyway, yesterday, we had a small party at the babysitter’s house. I brought the cake over at about 5 pm together with some snacks and party packs for the other kids. It rained cats and dogs when I arrived and all the kids had just woken up from their afternoon nap. Some of the other mummies arrived and waited it out due to the rain, so we had a bigger crowd at her party. Harvynna was very excited as she kept telling the mummies, ‘today, harvynna’s happy birthday’. There were 7 children including Harvynna.

One of the older kids, Natasha dressed Harvynna up, while I just snapped photos.
She sang her bday song……Happy bday Havina
Happy bday Havina
Happy bday Havina
Happy bday Havina

Harvynna was very happy and had 2 servings of cake. The cake tasted really good and looked pretty good too. The lady that made the cake is really talented. I saw some of her other cakes and was really impressed. She seems to specialize in 3D cakes. Next year, we will order the cake from her.

Once we got home, we opened her presents and she was too engrossed in them. All our family called to wish her, but she was a little ‘stuck up’. She just told everyone, ‘Ok, bye, see you’

Overall, it was just a simple celebration, nevertheless –still a celebration as our baby girl is now 2 years old.

Monday, April 10, 2006

10 things I like to do!


Painting / drawing/colouring

Reading

Bath (splash) time

Cooking (stirs things in little cups and pretends to cook)

Go shopping

put cream and make up

admire herself in the mirror

EAT! EAT! And EAT!

Attend Musikgarten classes and practice the dancing at home

Car rides

Under the weather!


Haven’t been on the blogging scene for a while. Havent fully recovered. Still suffering from a bad cough. Not taking any medication for it, so depending on my own immunities to get better. Harvynna was also sick last week. Her throat infection spread to her ear but she’s fine now, though she still has runny nose occasionally. Poor thing!

I was on mc last Wednesday, so daddy had to send her to work. On the way, she started crying and complaining about the sun in her eyes. Daddy’s car is not V-Kooled unlike Mummy’s!! Then she started vomiting and said, ‘I want to go home’. Once she reached home, she told me:

Harvynna: Harvynna coughing, all wet. Harvynna crying.
Mummy: Mummy will take you to the doctor and everything will be alright.

Then she kept asking, I wan see doctor. I want see Dr now! I want take medicine!

She looked so lifeless in the car from exhaustion.

I too have been feeling extremely tired and out of breath. No mood to go shopping even. I got most of the essentials already. Bag is packed. Just waiting for the day!